There’s no rule of law that says, the men should be the one to pay bills or finance something relating to money in the relationship or marriage.
If he visits you, you can give him Tfare (he’s not expecting that tho, but you will, if you’re the one visiting)
If you guys hang out, you can pay for the meals, drinks, games, movies. He shouldn’t be the one to pay for it always.
If he buys you a wear or anything, buy him something better that he will appreciate.
You can make a new hair without him paying for it, flaunt the hair in his face and give him money when he needs a new haircut.
Don’t be asking all the time. Give too.
P.S – do this for only ‘men’ that are worth it.