I never thought i’ll be writing my own story one day but I’m so confused about my situation.

So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for one year plus now. My family house is on the mainland and my boyfriend is on the island.


I work on the island 3 days a week from Wednesday to Friday so I just stay at my boyfriends place from Wednesday to Saturday and go back to the mainland.

So when I got to my boyfriends house on Wednesday evening after work I saw a pant that isn’t mine in his wardrobe.


I know it’s not mine because I don’t wear G-strings. I asked my boyfriend about the G-string in the wardrobe and he said he doesn’t know what I’m talking about.

I kept quiet and just continued to behave like there’s no problem. I honestly didn’t have the energy to be fighting about pant after my stressful day.

Next thing, on Thursday evening when I got back from work my boyfriend started shouting at me and causing a scene and calling me all sorts of names that I’m a gold digger, a pretender and a snake because I’m not showing anger over the pant issue.


He even said that I’m not getting angry because my birthday is on Monday and I want to collect gift from him.

‘Husbands who refuse to eat wives food to bag two years jail term’

What even shocked me the most is when he now said that next month if I see any pant again that I should keep this same energy and be quiet.

I’m really confused and I don’t know what to do. Is this a sign to break up with him or is he trying to breakup before my birthday?

He’s not broke so I know it’s not because he can’t give me gift. If he even gives me gift on Monday after his eyes have cleared and I don’t collect he will say I’m childish.


I really don’t know what to do. I didn’t have energy to fight today does not mean if I see pant next month I won’t have energy to fight.

It has nothing to do with my birthday or gift, I’m really confused on what to do now.